One of the most common phrases I hear from my patients is, “As soon as I get pregnant I will stop drinking coffee and alcohol.”
The trouble with that strategy is that the pregnancy may never happen if the liver is compromised.
Let me explain. No, there is too much, let me sum up. (Name that movie!)
- Any alcohol consumed during an IVF cycle reduces its chance of success by 50%.
- Coffee constricts blood vessels while tea opens them. In order to ensure optimal functioning of a woman’s reproductive organs, there must be adequate blood flow.
Having said that, I wholeheartedly agree with one of my favorite mentors, Dr. Libby Weaver, who accurately explains, “It’s not what you do once in awhile, it’s what you do everyday that makes a difference in your health.”
So how much coffee and alcohol can you have without compromising your fertility?
1-3 cups of coffee or 1-3 glasses of wine per month is what I would consider “once in awhile” and very low risk to your fertility.
If you are drinking more than that, consider asking yourself these questions:
- How many glasses does it take for you to feel buzzed? Is that number slowly increasing?
- Do you feel like it would be very hard to cut down on one or both? That’s a good sign that it’s necessary to do so.
- What is a glass of wine or cup of coffee giving you that you can get some other way?
From a Traditional Chinese Medicine point of view, our Liver Qi is responsible for orchestrating the menstrual cycle, and plays a crucial role in women’s fertility.
When our cycle goes smoothly, i.e. no cramps, no mood swings, no breast tenderness, moderate flow of deep red blood for 3-5 days with no clots and little spotting, that means our Liver Qi is healthy and balanced. (And, yes, that’s possible!)
Unfortunately, most women experience the opposite of the period described above. This is a sign that your Liver Qi is stuck and needs some help to flow more smoothly.
Enter coffee and alcohol, usually the first self-medicating solution we are drawn to. (Our cravings are so smart.)
Coffee and alcohol temporarily relieve stress and make us feel better, or as we say, “smooths out the Liver Qi.”
However, in the long run, these temporary salves can cause more Liver Qi Stagnation which makes us crave more alcohol and more coffee, causing more PMS symptoms and potentially leading to fertility issues.
From a western medicine perspective, coffee and alcohol are considered “liver loaders,” which means they are processed in the liver and too much of either one can compromise the liver’s healthy functioning.
Interestingly, estrogen, one of the most important women’s fertility hormone, is made and eliminated from the body via the liver.
So, you can imagine, if the liver is working overtime to process coffee and alcohol, that this will effect the proper estrogen balance in the body, potentially leading to compromised fertility.
Here are some healthy alternatives to get your liver and your fertility back on track:
- Teeccino, a wonderful coffee-like substitute made with chicory root which is high in potassium, giving you a natural energy boost that also promotes bowel movements, just like coffee! And I love the rich taste.
- Green tea actually helps to smooth the Liver Qi, from a Chinese Medicine perspective, and the small amount of caffeine can help you with the transition from coffee.
- Swiss water process decaf coffee is much healthier than other decaf coffee made via toxic chemical processes.
- Pomegranate juice and sparkling water in a wine glass is a wonderful substitute to fill that void in your hand when socializing or enjoying dinner.
- De-stressing or “me” time rituals like journaling, taking a bath, meditation, yoga, reading a good book, going out with friends, making a cup of tea, or getting a massage can all help to satisfy the feeling we’re looking for when we reach for our most loved vice.
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Cheers to your fertility! <3